"your the least needy women i've ever met. that's awesome. i mean no guys gonna who's your daddy to Robbin Scherbatsky, you're your own daddy, and that is what makes you the most amazing, strong, independent woman i've ever bang"
-Barney Stinson-
How I Met Your Mother, Season 6, Episode 6
kalau korang peminat setia series ni, mesti pernah dengarkan dialog ni... believe it or not, to a woman like robin, that is one of the sweet things a guy can say.
cikgu aku dulu pernah cakap, nak jadi perempuan ni susah. kenapa? 1st kene tahan period pain, which for some girls sangat teruk sampai tak boleh bangun katil. 2nd kene tahan morning sickness for pregnant woman, i dont know how tapi tu la dier cakap. and 3rd, labor pain.
on top of that, if you put your situation under a woman shoe, and by saying you i meant the boys, imagine if you have to feel the period pain while doing the test, or while sitting in the class hoping it will finish soon.
why are we being emo sometimes? or let me say, the whole time? it's the hormone things. i dont get it too sometimes. and yeah, i do get this mood swing once in a while. but here's the catch, i only get emo with these selected few people. some i know why, some not. haha
anyway the point is, for a woman to be strong perhaps stronger than a men can be, takes a lot of breakdowns. people dont get strong just like that. and let me say this, a women is meant to be weak, so for one to be strong, its just out of courage and hopes. once you have a breakdown, you will take time to get back up on your feet.
i dont know if its true or not, but this type of women might probably will get less attention from the opposite sex and so less opportunity for dates. correct me if i'm being wrong. should i say, every action its consequences. there are price to pay.
so, the next time you found yourself a strong independant woman, dont try to break her down just because she hold herself from you. there are probably lot of things she hide it inside, lock it up not to be seen by others.
instead, embrace her. soften her heart with love.
"who said i cant wear my converse with my dress
well baby thats just me
who i cant be single and have to go out and mingle
baby thats not me"
La La Land
-Demi Lavato-
p/s: i have my guard up high, i've ignore in once. didnt turn out good. i broke my wall just to get myself broken. and it builds my wall higher than before.
2 comments:
"i only get emo with these selected few people."
hope that I'm not that selected few people.. hehe...
stay strong... everyone specials in their own way...
baek.mekaseh! =)
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